‘I want so badly to help her’: My girlfriend made a $60,000 ‘error of judgment’ at work. Should I take out a HELOC or dip into my 401(k) to bail her out?

https://www.marketwatch.com/story/i-want-so-badly-to-help-her-my-girlfriend-made-a-60-000-error-of-judgment-at-work-should-i-take-out-a-heloc-or-dip-into-my-401-k-to-bail-her-out-edc7ac5f?mod=mw_rss_topstories
“If she doesn’t repay the money, she believes she will lose her $100,000 job and possibly be sued for the $60,000.”…